Ask Professor Taltos a serial by Cynthia McCaffrey

Similar to Ask Aunt Cynthia, the author chooses in this instance to answer letters from the point of view of a university professor, with some poignant results.

Ask Prof. Taltos - Two years ago I met the man of my dreams. We are getting married next spring, so we decided to live together until then. Last week I caught him looking at porn on the net and now I'm not so sure I want to get married to him. He says I'm over reacting and behaving like a child but I feel betrayed and he creeps me out now. What should I do? Every time we try to talk about it we get into an argument.

Don’t Do The Crime - I’m in a bind. My girlfriend found out I was seeing her best friend. Now she wants to call off the relationship. How can I explain to her that I made a big mistake, and I don’t want anyone else?

Kiss My … - I was wondering when is it okay to tell someone to kiss my fuzzy tailbone? I have this man at work who can't seem to come with-in three yards of me, and he starts coming out with the most male chauvinistic comments you can imagine.

Share And Share Alike - Hi my name is Gary, and I want to know how you break up with someone these days? My girlfriend (she's thirty and I'm forty six) and I have been going together for three years, and she bores the hell out of me! Should I send her a letter or maybe just flowers? Is there any proper protocol I should follow?

The Raw Truth - I don’t have a specific thing that I need advice on, but I would like to see where you stand on 'cyber relationships' from a small level of attachment to a deep involved one.